The saying "no pain no gain" is not true. The " biggest loser" reality show is not reality and a lot of participants after the show gain the weight back. Who has the time to live on a ranch without working and without their family for several months? Incorporating healthy lifestyles in your daily routine need to be realistic. Slow progressive changes to your lifestyle will keep you motivated and less stress rather than trying to change things all at once. Making too many changes to your lifestyle too fast will make you feel overwhelmed and you will feel discouraged and make it so you do not want to continue.