Kurt Gillon's Blog

No one else is in charge, you were created in an image to be the best! So take that gift and make it happen!  Belief in one's self is the key. So many accomplishments have been made simply because the person believed it to be so. Develop a power from within and create the good life!

The toughest thing in life, is being true to ourselves. Let's rearrange the priority. Life's ADVANTAGES begin when the pretending ends.

Exercise One - Self Examination Start by compiling a list of all those negative thoughts your have about yourself“I''m undisciplined, I can''t manage my time, I let people down, I can''t succeed, I don''t exercise enough. You will need to decide before you start this process that you won''t get discouraged“.these are things that you will admit to yourself but they most certainly don''t have to control your life. Next, compile a second list including everything you LIKE about yourself. Keep going until this list is LONGER than the first list you compiled. You might include things such as, I am a good cook, I can make people laugh, I contribute to the soccer club, my daughter loves the way I decorate her room. Then, take your ''negatives'' list and turn it into your ''potentials'' list. You do this by creating a positive self-image to every ''negative'' you listed. Instead of "I can''t succeed", write a counter belief, "I will succeed". Ceremonially throw out the ''negatives'' list - you are saying goodbye forever! Burn them, trash them, destroy them“.they are no longer going to be a part of your thinking about yourself. Now, keep your list of potentials in a prominent place. On your refrigerator door, in your daily journal, or in a picture frame on your desk. Make sure you have them in front on your every single day so that you are reading them constantly and reprogramming your daily thoughts. Exercise Two: You Can Be What You Want to Be Now that you have your list of potentials“ run your own visualisation stories so that you can ''see'' yourself in a new light. For example, if your list of potential includes "I eat just the right portions", visualise yourself with a moderate portion on your plate, and feeling completely satisfied at the conclusion of your meal. Read through your list of potentials every day taking a few moments of personal quiet time to reflect strongly on your visualisations. Try starting your day first thing in the morning and finishing as the last thing at night with visualising yourself being the person on your list, and doing the things you want to do. Exercise Three: Keep a Journal of Your Daily Successes Keep a record of all the positive changes in thoughts you have about yourself. We all have triumphs and ''failures''. You must record and remind yourself of the positive changes because our human nature will replay the negatives - sometimes blowing them out of proportion. It''s important to nurture and celebrate the small steps you make every day. Exercise Four: Go Easy On Yourself - You Are Beautiful Work In Progress Don''t listen to the criticism“not your own nor that of others! Remember you are the designer of your self-esteem, do not hand this over to other people. You are way too important to give this away. Protect your role as creator of your own self-image and do not, take on board negative criticisms. We all make mistakes, and mistakes can be used to help us learn. Do not criticise yourself for being human and making a mistake. The only last mistake in the one from which we never learn to grow. Exercise Five: Forget About The Past The only moment you can live is the current one. You can''t live in the future and you most certainly shouldn''t live in the past“.the challenge is to take charge of our thinking so that we think in the same time zone in which we live! For example we may be tempted to think about yesterday''s failures“"If only I hadn''t eaten second helpings", "If only I didn''t reach for the chocolate cookies". If we concentrate on the mistakes of yesterday this will our brains to replay our failures and reinforce them to us. Yesterday is over, today is where you live“.make sure that today you do NOT replay yesterday''s failures and make your resolve to change TODAY. Exercise Six: Resolve to Change Today Just as you shouldn''t live in the past, you can''t live in the future. You can only live or change today. The oldest cliché in the world is perhaps one of the greatest truisms of all“''tomorrow NEVER comes!'' There is no better time than now. So, no matter what excuses you may have to wait to take those healthy steps you know you should take, none of them are valid. Do it now, do it today. Resolve to make a different in your own life before you go to sleep tonight. Exercise Seven: Write a Plan For your Life This is your success plan. If you have not already done so it is time for you to create direction and purpose in your plans for yourself. Review your list of potentials and record next to each potential when you want to achieve this by. Exercise Eight: Carry Affirmation Cards About Yourself This is one of the fastest tools for your success. You are what you think. Strengthen your self-image every day by reviewing your thoughts. One of the easiest ways to do this is to carry affirmation cards in your wallet and review regularly. Affirmation cards are short bursts of words in business card that prompt and remind your self-image of your intentions. An example might be: I can achieve anything that I put my mind to. I will be satisfied with single helpings. Try it, you have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain! Exercise Nine: Change Your Eating Habits Now that you have set the groundwork in place, you are now ready to change your physical habits. You are ready to add a balanced nutritious diet, healthy eating habits, regular exercise and relaxation. By using these nine exercises daily to change your thinking habits, you will be strengthening your self esteem and unlocking your internal power to make a change in your life. Before you can change lifelong eating habits, you must first change life long thinking habits. We are what we think. We can''t be something other than what we believe we can be! So, do yourself a favour, liberate your self-image and then, see how much more effective your healthy living plan becomes! http://leanmachine.org

If we were to be truly honest with ourselves most people actually want to lose a few pounds - if we only knew how. Are you a ''look-and-lose'' dieter? Have you studied every diet ever created, read a zillion diet books, and yet are still unhappy with your weight? Has your quest for the holy grail of dieting become a substitute for actually making changes required to take the ill health out of your current diet? If so, you may not realise your thoughts are key to your happiness and success. Do you look at yourself and say, "I''m fat", or "My hips are too big"? Many of us look in the mirror and immediately compare ourselves to those ''perfect'' human specimens we see every single day on TV, in magazines and in the newspapers. Often we talk to ourself and make excuses, "It''s my genes", "I''m much too busy to get fit", "I like myself this", as a way of protecting yourself from the way we see ourselves now and the way we want to be. If we were to be truly honest with ourselves most people actually want to lose a few pounds - if we only knew how. The good news is you CAN achieve your desired body shape with the right thinking about yourself, an understanding of how to get optimal nutrition, healthy eating habits and how to incorporate activity into your lifestyle to keep your muscles toned. But most important of all, you need a regular mental workout to keep your self-image in shape. Self-image is closely connected to the success or failure of any goal you choose to seek after, but none more so that the goal to get yourself fit and healthy. So how do you go about strengthening your self-image? Well fortunately your self-image, just like your muscles, will respond well to a regular work out. You can actually strengthen your self-image with a few daily exercises.

If you want to keep the weight off you must develop a consistent change in eating habits to ensure you do not consume more than your body requires. You cannot continue to eat the same quantities and/or combinations of foods that caused you to be overweight in the first place.

Before many Australians recently, a devastating story unfolded on a popular current affairs program. 

We watched with compassion as the fattest man in Australia told of his most recent, serious attempt to lose weight. Approximately 12 months earlier and weighing close to 300 kilos, he under went surgery and had his stomach stapled.

I doubt there would have been one person watching not moved by this man''s depression and plight. Despite undergoing the surgery, today he could barely get through each day, both physically and mentally. He shared with us his sense of hopelessness and wanting to end it all.

It was not only his size that was causing his depression. He had to deal with a heart broken by disappointment.

You see, the stomach stapling had been a success. 

He soon lost well over 50 kilos post operation and he and his family rejoiced. But then the unthinkable happened. 

The weight came back. Today he weighs well over 300 kilos - more than before the stomach stapling.

This is an extreme case, but nonetheless raises a question that so many people continue to battle with.

After a diet, why does the weight come back so quickly?

To answer this we need to understand how much energy a body requires. For each pound you weigh, each day you need 12 calories to maintain your body weight. If you weigh 120 pounds you will need 120 x 12 calories, that is, 1440 calories per day to maintain that body weight. If you eat or drink more calories than your body requires, the excess energy is stored as fat. It takes 3,600 excess calories to make one pound of fat. 

In this example, if your typical daily calorific intake is 2000 calories, in around 30 days you would put on between 4-5 pounds of fat! 

Let''s say, you then decide to go on a restrictive diet and halve your calorific consumption to 1,000 calories per day. You stay on this diet for around a month and lose 10 pounds and now weigh 110 pounds. You feel fantastic about losing the weight but can''t keep up such a restrictive regime because you are irritable and have no energy.

So you go off your diet and go back to your usual routine of 2,000 calories a day. Remember you are lighter now and your body requires less energy to maintain its new weight. You would now require 110 x 12, that is, 1320 calories per day. 

In this instance, by consuming 2000 calories daily, because you are lighter than before, you would put the weight back on in just 24-25 days!

If you want to keep the weight off you must develop a consistent change in eating habits to ensure you do not consume more than your body requires. You cannot continue to eat the same quantities and/or combinations of foods that caused you to be overweight in the first place. This will require developing an understanding of the nutritional content of food and raising your body''s metabolism through increased muscle mass and exercise.
 

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MOTIVATION: This is a DAY that we have never seen before. All things are created new. How we think. How we feel, who we forgive, and what we believe, can all be made differently. TODAY is your day to give out something you would want to receive back into your future- tomorrow. Make today count! TODAY is the greatest opportunity we have! Have a great week friends ;-).

MOTIVATION: This is a DAY that we have never seen before. All things are created new. How we think. How we feel, who we forgive, and what we believe, can all be made differently. TODAY is your day to give out something you would want to receive back into your future- tomorrow. Make today count! TODAY is the greatest opportunity we have! Have a great week friends ;-).

Why not look at the world with a different perspective. Open your eyes to everything you are missing and you wont believe how amazing you can be.  Fortune favors those who choose to see it coming. Prosperity belongs to those who work to bring it to life.

 

Be Exceptional. Be Amazing. Be your one TRUE self. Make it happen. Its only you who can make life what it can be. Go after it with no regret. The time is now.

My goal: a healthy lifestyle. It's not easy for me; the desire to workout with the intensity that makes the workout not as much fun as it feels like punishment, the avoidance of unhealthy foods that I love. But, as I try to find the balance; staying active enough and eating clean enough to boost my health inside my body and out. I am grateful for the choices I can make.

 

What is your goal? Really?

MID DAY CUP OF MOTIVATION: Life is a sport called Progress. Called GROWTH. LIFE is the greatest game ever played. It takes Focused strategies, committed players, and a supportive team, that's got your back, to stay in and succeed in the GAME.

Sometimes ALL we need to get through one at a time to hear someone say: "I BELIEVE in you. I've got your back."

"To achieve any goal, you must choose the suffering that's right for you, you must accept that reality, you must embrace that truth, and then you must live with it every day of your life."
-Gary Ryan Blair

TAKE AWAY:
Keep going in the direction that is right just for YOU. There's No need to focus on your surroundings (to left or to the right). No need to focus on the fans, the players or the opponents. Just focus on the field, the game, the race, that's laid out ahead of you. Stay preparing for it. BE Encouraged. Refuse to QUIT. and Keep GOING.