The top educators in the world list "Setting High Expectations" as a priority step to reaching great achievements: a belief that WONDERFUL THINGS ARE going to happen to you! From your first hot air balloon ride, to switching careers, to changing your health habits: aim high to reach high in your life. Once you set a high expectation, plan 1. Resources, 2. Timed Steps, and 3. Support to move from belief to reality.
1. RESOURCES: The valid, trusted tools and knowledge to reach your goal. Seek resources that are 1. accurate and 2. level-appropriate. If your resource is convenient but not from an expert or it is from a professional but not understandable, keep searching. Correct materials at your level are worth their weight in gold!
HOT TIP: When searching online for content, resources, or products, read "Comment", "Testimonial", and "About" pages to get a feel for who the creator is and the type of client the resource was designed for.
2. TIMED STEPS: The timeline and size of steps fit into your life, today! Although vast changes are a wonderful thought, most if not all daily life changes will happen in small, quick, and simple modifications to your normal routine. Make long-term changes by repeating those small behaviors over time.
Small example steps are: taking 5 minutes a day to write down daily spending habits, swapping out the yogurt for a cleaner brand on the next shopping trip, and making a call to a local gym to ask about their programs.
HOT TIP: Keep moving forward by making the steps to your expectation REQUIRED, not optional.
3. SUPPORT: Build a support network of people who have been there, done that. Seek referrals, ideas, or experience friends, family, and area professionals: their feedback is priceless.
HOT TIP: Kiss shyness goodbye and ASK professionals the questions you have to build your plan. Experts are people just like you but simply further along on the same journey.
High Expectation: "Hey Megan, I'm going to become a fitness professional!"
|Oh, wow! Tell me more...|
High Expectation with a Plan:
"Hey Megan, I would love to change careers and become a fitness professional! I can begin working one-on-one with members at a local gym but here's what I need to do:
The local gym requires an ACE Personal Trainer certification; I looked into it online and the ACE PT Exam materials and testing procedure seem valid (NCCA accreditation) and are broken down into segments that fit my 12-14 week/10 hrs per week available study time. ACE has email reminders, study guides, flash cards, and live chat support, too!
I can make it work if every Monday-Friday from 6-8 AM if I set my alarm and get going on time, plus I'll schedule in two extra study weeks in case emergencies arise before my testing date, so 14 weeks total to prep. My super family is going to limit distractions during my study hours. May I email you once or twice if I have content questions?"
|Great goal and those first steps sounds amazing! Absolutely!|
The expectation may be a strong belief, but the expectation with a plan changes your reality by developing passion, preparation, obstacle avoidance, plus you will gain supporters along your journey.
Honoring the memories, tragedies, survival, and empowerment of a single day in the history of the world through dance.
"Let freedom ring... Let the weak be strong... Throw the stone away..." - Martina McBride
Embrace the rhythms.
Repeat the mantras.
To a blessed and inspired life, EVERY single moment.
Warm-Up Traveling/Tango: Born This Way, Lady Gaga
"Spread your wings; you've got this!"
Warm-Up, Isolations Mixed with In-Place Cha Cha/Disco/Jive: Wings, Little Mix
Sept. 11, 2001
2,996 deaths; +6,000 injuries
Salsa: I'm Alive, Celine Dion
LaBlast Weight Loss Challenge
Empowering our Body, Mind, and Emotions
"Stronger, Harder, Wiser, Faster, Smarter"
Hip Hop Salsa: Fighter, Christina Aguilera
"Make Love to the DANCE FLOOR"
Cha Cha/Salsa/Jive: Dance Again, Jennifer Lopez and Pitbull
"Pride Inside You"
Disco/Strength: Rambo - Hardwell Edit, Deorro and J-Trick
Cha Cha/Salsa/Merengue Partnered: Independence Day, Martina McBride
Slow to Fast Jive: Proud Mary, Tina Turner
SQQ Rumba with Weights: No Air, Jordin Sparks and Chris Brown
Samba: Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy; Big & Rich
"Transition to Life"
Cool Down: Breathe, Faith Hill
"Feel Good. Life is Good."
Goodbyes: Feeling Good, Nina Simone
Commitment is only intended action without response. Response is the reaction or reply that gives commitment power.
- Body Action: In movement, intended action requires the body's response. The brain can cue "Gesture!" or "Travel!" or "Turn!" but relies on the response of the body to propel the action.
- Relationships: Communicated intention requires the response of the other person to complete the loop. A person can communication in a thousand ways "Let's DO ____!" but all stops without a reply. The response will strengthen or diminish subsequent commitment.
The opposite of commitment?
- An unmet high-five
- An email without reply
- A hug held with tension
- Waiting in vain
Powerful commitments are those met with response.
Wishing you the blessings of progress,
Alright, worldly readers: You must take some pictures of yourself to monitor your progress on fitness goals. Why? Because they tell you where you really are right now.
Grab someone to take a load of pictures of you working out. These images are like a mirror in motion and the purpose is not perfection.
Your fitness selfies should tell you:
- Is my form correct? Snap the TV or instructor in the background to compare.
- How do I feel on the INSIDE: Stronger, Faster, Freer? These are your goals.
- How does this compare to where I was a week ago and where I want to be a week from now?
Fitness pictures are both ugly and beautiful: you are working hard, dripping with sweat, breathing heavy, reaching to hit your mark. But you are alive, thriving, and growing so view your pictures in loving ways. Time is fleeting and precious.
Injuries and illnesses inflict a huge loss of hard-earned strength and stability. Today I am three weeks back from a 3-month forced pause to overcome both so some May 2014 progress checks were needed while working out to P90X3:
A note on my workouts: As a full-time mom, almost always 30 minutes is all I or any working person can get in every day. P90X3 accommodates my needs, creates results, and the instructor Tony Horton is hilarious which decreases the stress of the oncoming hard work. Then if time allows my bonus cardio reward is LaBlast Fitness: dance, dance, dance, YAY!
Love yourself by working hard and progressing your fitness selfies, take the brief notes that will help you succeed, then get ready for improved daily workouts.
Dancing again today feels like a bit of a dream, a sense of delusion, and great excitement!
Imagine Dragon: "I'm on top of the World" Offical Video
The past seven weeks have been filled with:
- More doctors, education, and medications for my body than usual
- Loads of pilates, ballet, mixed martial arts with standing weight on my left leg, upper body conditioning, and everything on my hands and knees and back that avoided harming the punctured right ball of my foot.
- Dozens of tasks delegated and reorganized so nothing was dropped or left behind
- More love, friends, family, and support than I imagined could be given
- More reflection, insight, research, and work toward potential future paths
- Inspiration from those in equal or worse situations who shared their rehab stories and tips
You can be any size, shape, race, gender, background, income, or education level:
For Instructors: LaBlast will be at ALL 2014 SCW Manias, register now!
Photos courtesy of Basil Steele.
Simultaneously begin Masters degree in Phys Ed and Group Fitness career.
Work with Older Adults, acute and chronic disease rehab, and specialty programs.
First successful pregnancy and birth but ongoing thyroid battles.
Pregnancy and postpartum fitness classes, better thyroid regulation and physician care.
My friend Dubra takes me to the LaBlast Premiere at IDEA World.
LaBlast is a fun-filled class that will both challenge and inspire people of all ages and fitness levels as we dance to music of all genres: Pop and Rock, to Hip Hop and Country, and more! Learn and enjoy partner-free dances like the Disco, Cha Cha, Jive, Samba, Paso Doble, Merengue, and Salsa to burn some calories simply in your casual clothes and low-tread sneakers.
Louis says: "If you can walk, you can dance."
XO - Megan