Too many people focus on weight when they should be focusing on total wellness. I will not tell you that someone who has a body fat percentage 10% or more higher then it should be is ok. I will tell you that the scale is a problem. Those who focus on the scale grow dependent on having to see the number to go down to feel successful. Reality is when you do this all you are doing is developing very bad mental habits that can and will lead to obsession and disorders. Yes, believe it or not over exercising is a sickness.
As we have grown up everyone from the Doctors to the TV and magazines have been telling us that we should weigh a certain amount based on height and age. Well once again science has proven that those numbers are not very accurate if you exercise. When you build lean muscle tissue you are adding weight to your body, but your are also adding skeletal strength, joint and tendon strength, as well as, increasing your metabolism.
My point is stop using the scale and focus on how your clothes feel and have your body fat tested if its a concern. Body fat testing is easy and typically will cost you nothing.
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Like anything supplements are both good and bad. If you choose to buy supermarket or large discount supply supplements expect to get poor quality. Typically higher priced supplements are better quality but that does not mean you should not read the label. For example: There is a very well known brand of protein powder on the market that talks about how high a quality and all natural it is, until you read the label and find sugar alcohols in it. For this exact reason you have to do some research on whats right for you. Don't take the advice of a young bodybuilder working on commission because 9 out of 10 times they are using the product of the month.
When you are looking to go to a group class before you sign up for a package take a free class. If the company does not offer a free class then its not a company that you want to work with.
Accountability is one of the biggest reasons why someone should hire a trainer. Now with that being said a trainer should not be your cheerleader when you are not giving as much as the trainer.
- A trainer will give you praise when you are doing a good job.
- A trainer will hold you accountable for doing your workouts.
- A trainer will monitor your nutrition and make corrections as needed.
- A trainer will provide you with the tools you need to be successful.
A trainer can not make you do anything! You will fail or succeed on your own. So it amazes me when clients want to blame the trainer because they did not get the results that they wanted.
As a client the first thing you need to look at is yourself and ask:
- Did I follow and track my meal plan
- Did I do every workout or just go through the motions
- Did I drink enough water each day
- Did I get enough sleep
- Did I hold myself accountable to my goals
If you can honestly answer YES to each one, then you have had success. A pound or an inch lost is success. Most forget that because of the biggest loser. Your health and fitness is a life long journey not a 12 week trip.
So far this week I have seen more free advertisements then ever before about how to lose weight. To me this is crazy because each one will only give you a taste then require you to pay an amazing amount to get the rest. Stop wasting time and energy on the free information. You need to hire a "Qualified" professional to design a personalized program for you.
Yes, I will tell you that any and every online program can get you some results, but it is not personalized to your body and your needs. This is why you need to hire a "Qualified" professional.
If you add up all the money you have spent over the years on fitness products and fitness gimmicks you could have already hired a "Qualified" professional.
So once again stop wasting time and money and hire someone today!
On the weekend most people want to just kick back and relax. Instead most are running around doing errands, cleaning the house, food shopping, etc. Your body and mind need downtime other then watching TV or sleeping. So turn off the TV, Computer, Radio and any other electronic device. The more you unplug the more time you will find to let your body and mind reconnect. This connection is very important for downtime. A nice quiet walk is a great way to relax, mediatation works or even just go out and look at the stars like we did as kids.
If you do any of these things and do not set a time on how long you are going to do them you will notice a big difference in your stress levels.
When it comes to proper nutrition I see many people cheating and thinking it is ok. If you eat a good healthy nutrition plan and exercise you can reach every goal. So why self sabotage with alcohol or extra sugar?
I will be the first to tell you that cheat meals are ok, but not every night or multiple in the same night. Binging happens more times then not and people just are not recognizing that they are even doing it. This is why tracking your nutrition is very important.
I have seen many of my clients realize after they start tracking their food that they are actually consuming well over their daily required caloric intake. This is often why people fail on nutrition plans. If you are not monitoring your intake then one drink can turn into two or three before you even realize it.
If you want to be successful when on a nutrition plan you need to eat and track everything that you consume.
If you are constantly telling everyone that you are exercising or killing it in your workouts, then do it! Stop lying to everyone and yourself if you are not. Your body will tell everyone the truth!
Everyday I see people posting about how healthy they are and how healthy they eat. Then they post up pictures of themselves and friends drinking alcohol and eating crap. Plus showing themselves sitting in a chair playing video games. So whats the reality? Your body has not changed in 2 years, but yet you say you are killing it everyday!
Stop Fooling Yourself!!
Sundays are the best day for rest and preparation.
If you prepare for the week ahead you can guarantee success by having a map to follow. One thing to remember when writing/drawing this map is to be realistic. If you set unrealistic plans you will be setting yourself up for failure.