I personally think people who regularly exercise in any form are very easy to buy gifts for. They always have something they need or want that would improve their game or make their workouts more enjoyable. Is there someone in your life and you are stumped on what to buy them? Or maybe it’s you and you need some hints to tell someone else what you want! Here are some creative, some simple, some inexpensive some tech ideas for your fit family or fit friend.
1. Weight Lifting gloves you can even find women’s in cool patterns here: www.femmefitalefitness.com
2. Water bottle (BPA free so in the hot AZ sun no one is ingesting leached plastic-ew)
3. Resistance bands in a variety of colors (black is toughest, yellow is easy)
4. Yoga mat
5. Workout towel – www.wordstosweatby.com
6. Inspirational poster or mug for their office
7. Workout journal or log book (great for keeping track of their routines)
8. Cool compression socks (runners)
9. Headbands, hair ties
10. Jump rope
11. Foam roller (great for sore muscles)
12. Gift certificate to a health food store or website for supplements and vitamins
13. Stability Ball
14. Healthy cookbook (smoothies anyone?)
1. Gym bag ( you can put mini deodorant, dry shampoo, lotion, body spray etc)
2. Inspirational jewelry at www.wordstosweatby.com
3. Funny slogan running tees @ http://onemoremile.net/
4. Pull up bar for their house
5. Medicine ball, dumbbells
6. Headphones like : Yur buds that will custom fit the buds to fit your ears! www.yurbuds.com
7. 1 hour Massage
1. Fit Bit, Jawbone Up, or Nike Fuel Band (these tech savvy pieces are great for tracking movement, calories and even your sleep patterns)
2. BOSU ball
3. TRX www.trxtraining.com
4. Polar Heart rate monitor- a great way for your favorite athlete to make sure they are working hard enough
If there is a guy or gal in your life who goes to the gym, hits some classes, runs, bikes, hikes, whatever it may be I assure you- they would LOVE more fitness stuff! Hope this helps for any last minute gift ideas!
There are a lot of posts on Facebook lately about Thanksgiving dinner- how many thousands of calories a typical dinner is, how to be strategic when you eat, even down to whether or not you should have pumpkin pie. (my opinion is yes! Duh!) I read one article that says if you must have dessert, have a sliver the width of your thumb. PLEASE! Do me a favor- look at your thumb right now, and tell me how satisfying a huge slice of pie the size of your thumb would be?
Not very satisfying at all, unless you have HUGE thumbs!
I say relax. It is one day, one meal. If you are competing in a figure/bikini competition or a professional athlete, I totally agree with being strategic and staying “on plan” with your diet. If you are the average fit Jane or John Doe, and you are eating healthy whole foods most of the time, getting plenty of water sleep and exercise, you can relax. One meal or one day will not derail your efforts any more than one day of eating well will instantly give you the body of your dreams.
A healthy lifestyle is all about moderation and balance. Be reasonable with your eating during the holidays. Go ahead and have a piece of pie larger than your thumb, but smaller than your hand (haha) You can always get back to your routine the following day.
No matter how smooth your life has been, at some point there will be a shift. A radical change in your circumstances that rocks your world and seems to turn it upside down. Let's call it that "Rattle Your Cage" kind of change. It totally sucks at the time, but as you struggle through it and power past it, you become stronger,wiser, and well- better because of it.
In September, it happened to me. I have been employed at a smaller privately owned and operated 24 hour gym since their doors opened 2 1/2 years ago. I started out as an independent contractor PT, but also became the fitness director in charge of marketing/social media/ commmunity involvement. I would joke that my car was on auto pilot- it only knew home and the gym. I had my "gym family"- the members and staff that I saw and engaged with and socialized with daily. It was my second home, I loved my job!
August 15th, the owner sat me and the manager down and informed us the gym had to close. There have been several larger franchise gyms open up in our area the last 6 months and it crushed our membership numbers. Our small business could not compete with national franchise marketing dollars, and their cheap sticker price was no competition either. The doors to our gym would remain open 30 days as a courtesy to our exisiting members. On September 15th the lights would go out and the music stopped playing for the very first time in almost 3 years.
This news crushed all of us. This devastated me! I had been comfortable there, I had become used to my routine of workout, train clients,get my stuff done at home, go back and train, repeat..... What was I going to do now? Where would I go? Where would I train clients? My head was spinning.
When rattle your cage kind of change happens, there are several emotions that a person goes through. Everyone is different how long they are feeling each emotion. First there is sadness, then anger, then panic, then maybe sadness again, anxiety , but then...wait for it......
That's right, you feel all these emotions, but there is a voice in your heart that whispers so softly, I think it's going to be ok. I think we can figure something out. Maybe you needed this for some strange reason. or like we hear so often "everything happens for a reason."
That whisper may be a little louder sometimes, or you may be more aware, and can move on through the process a little quicker. As soon as I heard the news, I heard the voice. I even felt a little guilty for thinking it. I was still sad, angry, anxious and panicking, but I felt the hope too.
See once you go through one rattle your cage experience, you are stronger the next time another comes around. You know what to expect. You know what’s on the other side of that change. Better stuff for you.
I am leaning towards that other side now, this is my first blog in how many months? I ordered new business cards see?
I have called up friends and past clients. I have updated my business Facebook page and posted relevant content.Guess what? People are calling. I have shifted the focus from the gym to my own personal training and the universe is answering, the wheels are in motion.
We all go through change- it's part of life. It can buckle you and crush you. Or you can listen to that soft voice in your heart that says " I think we are going to be ok", and you can find the possibilities that this world is offering you. I promise, you will be stronger, wiser and happier because of it!
Make it a great day!
- Cold/Hot showers - Much like athletes do with an ice bath/jacuzzi, this may seem a little torturous or extreme, but what this does is increase your circulation and get the blood flowing to your muscles and reduces muscle soreness. In the shower, turn the water on as cold as you can, and keep it there for 15 seconds. Then immediately switch it to as hot as you can stand for 15 seconds. Switch back and forth several times at the end of your daily shower.
- Massage- this is not just a great way to pamper yourself, but a good massage can loosen up tension, get your lymph nodes activated, and remove toxins via your bloodstream,urine and liver. Make sure to let the therapist know where your trouble spots are, and communicate fully throughout your massage if it becomes painful or uncomfortable. Also, it is important to drink alot of water post massage- your therapist has loosened up alot of toxins and you need to flush them out of your system.
- Anti inflammatory medicine- Always consult your physician when taking any medication. Ibuprofen and anti inflammatories are helping in reducing the swelling in your tissues that is causing some of that soreness.
- Light exercise- Ok, so you had a real tough lower body workout, to the point that it is difficult to walk without looking like a duck. We have all been there. You don't want to move at all! Here is when it is most important to get some light exercise, to warm up those muscles again. Walking, or the elliptical at a light easy pace for 20-30 minutes, then a gentle stretching session after should help minimize recovery time.
- Foam Rolling - this little gem of equipment is a steal for under $20! YouTube has tons of tutorials on how to use the foam roller. By using your body weight and adjusting the pressure as you roll, the fascial tissue gets stimulated and increased blood flow will speed up the recovery process. Similar to a sports massage, there is one thing to know- if it hurts, you found the spot that needs the help. This is something you can actually do daily to several times a day, and even when your muscles are cold.
Quieting the quitter in us
Last year my client started out with a 6 month goal of running a mile. We started with slow jog intervals of only 30 seconds at a time, with 2 minutes of walking to recover. Four months later she ran her first 5k. It was tough. This past November she ran her first 10k and placed top 10 in her age bracket- a non-runner! By her last race, she was running intervals almost the full mile at a time, recovering for only a minute or so.
Well, today we amped up that intensity to sprint intervals- to burn fat and really push her cardiovascular system. I knew it would be tough- they are INTENSE! If you are really pushing yourself to the limit, those 30 second sprints should feel like you are about to die. Then recover for a minute. We started off, and each time, about 26 seconds into her sprint, she would slow down, shake her head and try to stop. “I can’t”…she would say. So I put my imaginary Jillian Michaels hat on (which I almost never do) and pulled her by her arm and yelled at her “Yes you can!” For a whopping 4 remaining seconds. She was so close to finishing strong, but her inner dialogue had defeated her.
We did 10 rounds. By round 4, I started timing her inner chatter perfectly and would snap her out of it- telling her “I know what you are thinking right now and don’t you dare stop!” Then the timer would beep. It worked.
After round 10 she thanked me, said I pulled her through. It’s all mental. Our thoughts can literally choke and suffocate us from the inside out. When my clients shake their head no, I tell them it’s too late- you already ARE- you just gotta get to the end!
Tough love is hard for me as a coach. But I learned something today- some of us need it more than others- that person to push us past our own demons- push us through the negative chatter… My job now is to help my client dig deep enough in her psyche to stop that “I can’t” from ever surfacing, and bring the “I can”, “I will” and “I am” to the surface.
Never let yourself get too hungry, too tired, or too stressed.
I was thinking about this on the treadmill yesterday. Why do I eat so well most of the time, then turn one day and eat foods that aren’t the best for me? Why do I skip workouts, or have one too many cocktails and feel like junk the next day? I know better! But I figured out why this happens to me...
If I let myself get too hungry, I reach for anything to satisfy me, and then I keep eating more of it. If I get stressed I may have a drink or two, which can lead to me eating bar food. If I get tired, from pushing myself too much or staying up too late, I skip workouts. They are all pieces to the same downward spiral puzzle.
So never let yourself get too hungry- fill up on veggies and eat regularly on whatever schedule you have decided- whether it’s 3 square meals, or 5-6 smaller meals.
Aim for 8 hours of quality sleep- go to bed a little early, create a routine before bed that calms your body and signals it is time for slumber. Take a 20 minute power nap during your lunch hour if you can.
Manage your stress- find time to laugh and play throughout your day. Don’t take life so seriously! Exercise releases stress reducing hormones, but so does watching a good comedy or taking a bubble bath or playing a game with the kiddos.
Never let yourself get too hungry, too tired, or too stressed!
You have work, baking, shopping for the holidays, parties- oh and at some point the kids gotta eat and mama needs to clean something, right? So during the holidays, what happens to your fitness? It can easily end up on the bottom of that list of “to do’s”.
It’s a vicious cycle- you don’t have time to work out- you eat a little crappy. You start to feel low energy, lethargic even. It’s cold outside and dark when you wake up- who wants to leave the house on a cold dark morning to go to the gym?
Well guess what? Your health, your energy and definitely your stress level depend on it. Let’s forget trying to be in a bikini right now- honestly we are wearing sweaters and trying to skip shaving our legs- having a six pack may not be your biggest concern right now! But exercise has a myriad of benefits that definitely should be at the top of your lists.
· It reduces blood pressure.
· It releases natural endorphins- the happy kind
· It reduces stress hormones.
· It will help you sleep more soundly at night, which gives you more energy to tackle that gift list.
So we know it’s good for us- big deal right? How are you going to actually fit it in? How can you motivate yourself to drag your ass to the gym, or get to that workout class, or go on a run?
Here are just a couple tips, create your own go to motivators-
· Get up early- I don’t care if you are not a morning person- as the day goes on, excuses begin to pile up and your schedule gets filled. If this is you, wake up a little early (in the dark even) and get it over with. I guarantee by mid-day you will have forgotten you even worked out!
· Set out your clothes, your shoes, your iPod whatever you need- have them in your front seat of your car so on the way home you just can’t ignore them- take them into the office and change before your ride home. If you work out in the morning, sleep in your clothes if it helps!
· Delegate other tasks to free up 30-60 minutes. Kids can help with dinner, cleaning can wait until the weekend,( who needs to dust right now anyway?) Find the holes in your schedule that can be managed a little better and create that workout time.
· Grab a friend- set a date with him or her to hit the gym or go on a run or walk together. That creates accountability. You can’t let that person down by being a flake!
· Last but not least, post a “before” pic on your fridge or bathroom mirror. Then find a picture of yourself at a time when you felt your best and post that too- which one do you want to be?
Have a very Merry Christmas and a Fabulous 2013!
I am sure everyone has heard of this rule- 80% of your fat loss is nutrition, 20% is exercise. I have even read that 80% is nutrition, 10% is exercise and 10% is genetics. Either way the nutrition, the fuel you put into your body, tremendously impacts what you look and feel like.
However, the 80/20 rule I also talk to my clients about is healthy living and being realistic. As long as you are consistently eating the right foods and getting daily exercise in 80% of the time, that other 20% (holidays, vacations) should not completely sabotage your hard efforts to live a healthy life.
So keep the fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains and lean protein sources at the forefront of your mind when choosing. Do not berate yourself and say you “cheated” just because you indulge every once in a while. It is all about consistency and the big overall picture.
Have you ever heard of The Paper Towel Theory? Bob White first wrote about it, and a friend of mine recently shared it with me. It’s definitely a motivator!
The theory is – say you have two rolls of paper towels, both with 150 sheets on them. You want to lose 35 pounds of that. One roll is “Big Christine”, we will set her off to the side. The second roll is “New Christine”. Each sheet of paper towel represents a quarter pound of fat. Every day we work out, let’s take one sheet off, so at the end of the first week we have taken 5 sheets off that roll. Does it look any different from the first roll? NO! It barely made a dent! “This working out and eating right isn’t working! “But a few weeks later, you have taken numerous sheets off, and comparing New Christine to Before Christine you can start to see the difference. It took time. As we get smaller, the sheets we take off are becoming more noticeable, because they are wrapping themselves around a smaller surface. Be consistent- do not give up!
So back to this 80/20 rule, especially timely topic because of the holiday season. Be consistent with your food choices and daily exercise. Pride yourself on being strong willed and having a goal, despite the baking, the parties, and all the marketing ploys to overindulge. That’s your 80%.
Treat yourself when you feel like it, and enjoy it. Don’t feel guilty! That’s the 20%.
It’s simple, it’s definitely realistic and it is attainable.
Have a great day,
My pal Leslie has been going at it for nearly 12 weeks now. She sent progress pictures yesterday with an email, and gave me permission to post. Leslie is a perfect example of how becoming healthier is not a matter of a straight line, but more turns and curves and twists to get to your goal. A single mom with a young daughter and full time job, she is just like anyone else trying to “fit it all in”. I am very proud of her and excited as she embarks on the next 12 weeks!
in her words-
"It’s time for an update that really shows results, I was a little worried about this but I can say that no scale will truly tell it. Pictures are for real. I know we all see old pictures from the past and say hey I remember those days or wow I look young or I look so fat. Well I can say that my 12 weeks ago those pictures are something that I do not want to go back to but what a great reminder as to how far I have come. I can honestly say that I didn’t work as hard as I should of although I have seen results they could be better and I will continue to strive forward. Personal things that have gone on are now slowly moving in the past so I know that my focus will change and that will help with myself, mind and body and I know that stress can put a huge burden on and weight. I promise within the next 12 weeks, the results will be amazing and I’m excited to see what the future holds. Even though I’m over 900 miles away thanks to Christine and all the support it really has helped!!!!
Leslie's changes can be seen in her arms, abs, lower body- but even her posture! She is standing with more confidence- love it! She reminds me of the popular inspirational pic online:
This past week I have been toying with the idea of competing in another bikini contest. A friend of mine is competing in a March show, and I am helping her prep and train for it. Giving her tips and advice from my first experience has gotten me excited again, because it really was an awesome challenge!
My husband actually brought this topic up last week. “I think you should do another one“ (contest). This surprised me, mostly because I really thought it was hard on my family when I was going through the training and diet. He did see how much fun I had, and having a goal to strive towards made it so much easier to push myself. So I told him, “I think I might compete again, but maybe I’ll just start training and dieting ‘as if’ I might compete and then just decide as we get closer to the date.” He replied “Whoa! I don’t think so! There is no ‘maybe’ or ‘try’. You either do or you don’t. It’s all in or not at all.”
I hate it when he’s right.
Yesterday I had a friend I met on Facebook message me just to chat and catch up. She asked if I had a trainer with my first contest, if I enjoyed the competition, etc. I asked her if she was considering a competition, and she said she was on the fence about it. Then she asked me the ultimate question- “What would you tell someone who is thinking about competing?” Here was my opportunity to spit some wisdom in her direction. I told her “Go for it- why not? Take the leap, enjoy the challenge but go all in- 100%. You either do or you don’t. There is no try.” My husband‘s wise words in action.
Don’t go halfhearted into this decision or anything else in life.
Make it a fabulous day, people!